My FWB and I joined a swinging site, searching for couples. We’ve had a 3some collectively, and would love to explore more. Both are genuinely up for this. It is not one wanting it more. We are secure. Connect physically and mentally. Neither of us needs a relationship. We’re not possessive or exclusive.
My question/problem is this, we have chatted to a few couples in which we have found the man and woman attractive (I am bi-curious, he’s straight). But they have not developed into anything. The vast majority of the time the girl is a lot more attractive than the guy. I am definitely more straight than bi would be wonderful to have a guy for me although I love the bodies of women. We have arranged to meet with a few. Our first. She is gorgeous but he’s just average. He is tall that I seem intelligent and enjoy but the rest leaves me cold. I’m pleased to go along with it. I have things going on with men I do find appealing that is ok.
How often do you encounter a couple?
STOP. LOOKING. FOR. COUPLES!!!! Truth attraction isn’t a team effort. . .it is a thing!!! . .he can go find all of. . My swinging single friends and I have sex BECAUSE we pick and we proceed as individuals You hit on the nail on the head: 2 individuals picking For who you like, you, go. Her. .
Nearly one hundred percent was sure that it will not be combined!!! We perform as singles, When I have a date. He selects at his partners, I pick on mine. Sorry. . .that is the biggest mistake I understand some married couples that play. . .they are currently doing wonderfully!! And. . . My date could go fuck.
I’ll find the guys that are sexy to play !!! Sorry. . . . .maybe solo play should be considered by them. Hell, chooses and chooses and if goes 3 sexy guys, he goes one sexy girl, they could fuck in the bed. . .but let each person choose their spouses based on what attracts them. Once more attraction isn’t a team effort. . It is
With guys being attractive, I’ve noticed the exact same thing. And it is few and far between, although we’ve discovered it couples.
Play is very good and we adopt it so that we each can find what we like but group play is enjoyable. And part of what we like is the couple facet.
If there isn’t any picture of the man, that is a bad sign. I enjoy sexy men. I wish to see their pictures. I think women tend to take better care of their physical appearance and themselves. They just care about how they look.
Not all but at a noticeable number of couples versus single men I have been with the guys have sexual performance difficulties. And I’ve heard that from other women. Might not be.
But! The couple that is ideal is out there. If you’re outgoing, I’d propose a swinger party. Not a photograph from ten years back.
Since I have never heard of so many women in 1 place dying for men I want to begin going to the clubs that you people attend. Lol. In the regional clubs, there appear to be as many gals who do not match the”hot” function as men. So I plan to start here.
The 1 thing I do see a whole lot of is a few where they purchased her tits so they guess that is all either of these needs to perform…